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Reference request email

Ask someone to be your reference, make it easy for them and let them decline.

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Subject: Could you be my reference?

Dear Ms Alvarez,

I hope you are well. I am applying for a marketing coordinator job at Orbit Studio and wondered whether you would be willing to act as my reference. You know my work well as my manager at Harbor Retail from 2022 to 2025.

To make it easier, here is a reminder of what I did that may be useful: I ran the 2024 spring campaign that raised online sales by 22%, and trained three new team members.

The employer will contact you by email, and I will pass on your details only with your agreement. They would need the reference by 12 November 2026.

If you are not able to do this, or would rather not, I completely understand, and there is no problem at all. If you can, I would be very grateful, and I am happy to send my CV or talk over the role first.

Thank you for your time and for everything I learned from you.

Kind regards,

Jordan Lee
jordan@mail.example, +353 1 555 0182

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What this template is for

A polite email asking a former boss, teacher or colleague to be your reference: what for, the deadline, a reminder of your work and an easy way to say no.

It is free to fill in online, needs no account, and downloads as a Word document or a PDF. See all Emails templates

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What you fill in

The form asks for 8 details. The document fills itself in as you type.

  • Name of the person you are asking

    For example: Ms Alvarez

  • Your name

    For example: Jordan Lee

  • How they know you

    For example: my manager at Harbor Retail from 2022 to 2025

  • What the reference is for

    For example: a marketing coordinator job at Orbit Studio

  • Needed by

    For example: 12 November 2026

  • Work or achievements to remind them of

    For example: I ran the 2024 spring campaign that raised online sales by 22%, and trained three new team members.

  • How the reference is given

    For example: The employer will contact you by email, and I will pass on your details only with your agreement.

  • Your email or phone

    For example: jordan@mail.example, +353 1 555 0182

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What is inside

The parts of this document, in order.

  1. 1Subject: Could you be my reference?
  2. 2Dear [Name of the person you are asking],
  3. 3I hope you are well. I am applying for [What the reference is for] and wondered whether you would be willing to act a...
  4. 4To make it easier, here is a reminder of what I did that may be useful: [Work or achievements to remind them of]
  5. 5[How the reference is given] They would need the reference by [Needed by].
  6. 6If you are not able to do this, or would rather not, I completely understand, and there is no problem at all. If you...

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What details does this template ask for?

The form asks for 8 details, starting with Name of the person you are asking, Your name, How they know you, What the reference is for, Needed by.

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